A documentary film about the many faces of love, betrayal and violence (81 min)
NEW YORK PREMIERE
Join us on Saturday, November 1, 2014 for the 6:20pm screening followed by a conversation with Director Robert Lemelson moderated by Rita Cosby of WABC
***UPDATE: Please join us for an additional Q&A session with Director Robert Lemelson on Monday, November 3, 2014 after the 6:20pm screening.
***UPDATE: Please join us for an additional Q&A session with Director Robert Lemelson on Monday, November 3, 2014 after the 6:20pm screening.
IFC Center
323 Avenue of the Americas, New York, NY 10014
323 Avenue of the Americas, New York, NY 10014
*Tickets available online and at box office
$14 Adult | $10 Child or Senior
$14 Adult | $10 Child or Senior
CHICAGO PREMIERE
AMC RIVER EAST 21
22 E Illinois St, Chicago, IL 60611
22 E Illinois St, Chicago, IL 60611
*Tickets available online and at box office
$12.31 Adult | $11.19 Senior | $9.51 Child
$12.31 Adult | $11.19 Senior | $9.51 Child
PLAYING OCTOBER 31-NOVEMBER 6, 2014
10/31: 10:20a | 1:20p | 3:30p | 5:40p | 6:20p | 8:30p | 10:45p
11/1 1:20p | 3:30p | 5:40p | 8p | 10:45
11/2: 1:20p | 3:30p | 5:40p | 8p
11/3: 11:10a | 1:20p | 3:30p | 9:10p
11/4: 11:50a | 2:10p | 4:20p | 9:10p
11/5: 11:10a | 1:20p | 3:30p | 9:10p
11/6: 11:10a | 1:20p | 3:30p | 5:40p | 8pm | 9:10p
10/31: 10:20a | 1:20p | 3:30p | 5:40p | 6:20p | 8:30p | 10:45p
11/1 1:20p | 3:30p | 5:40p | 8p | 10:45
11/2: 1:20p | 3:30p | 5:40p | 8p
11/3: 11:10a | 1:20p | 3:30p | 9:10p
11/4: 11:50a | 2:10p | 4:20p | 9:10p
11/5: 11:10a | 1:20p | 3:30p | 9:10p
11/6: 11:10a | 1:20p | 3:30p | 5:40p | 8pm | 9:10p
DC PREMIERE
Join us on Friday, November 7, 2014 for the 7:20pm screening followed by a conversation with Director Robert Lemelson and moderated by Pek Koon Heng , Director of ASEAN Studies Center at American University
The director will also introduce the 9:30pm screening on opening night for those who can't make it the 7:20pm screening Q&A.
The director will also introduce the 9:30pm screening on opening night for those who can't make it the 7:20pm screening Q&A.
WEST END CINEMA
2301 M St NW (between M and N), Washington, D.C. 20037
2301 M St NW (between M and N), Washington, D.C. 20037
*Tickets available online and at box office
$11 Adult | $9 Student or Senior | $8 Child
$11 Adult | $9 Student or Senior | $8 Child
THE TRAILER
THE SYNOPSIS
Bitter Honey is a feature-length documentary presenting an intimate and emotionally charged portrait of three polygamous families in Bali, Indonesia. Following these families over a seven year period, the film portrays the plight of Balinese co-wives, for whom marriage is frequently characterized by psychological manipulation, infidelity, domestic violence, and economic hardship.
Living in a society where men have authority in many domains, these women have little voice in steering or protesting the conditions of their domestic lives. Bitter Honey draws attention to their struggle, documents the work of those taking steps to better protect and empower them, and aims to trigger a wider conversation about contemporary polygamy and women’s rights in Indonesia. (81 min)
THE FAMILIES
THE STORY OF THREE POLYGAMOUS FAMILIES
HUSBANDS
WIVES
+ CHILDREN
TUAJI'S WIVES
DARMA'S WIVES
SADRA'S WIVES
THE FILMMAKERS
Robert Lemelson
Director & Executive Producer
Robert Lemelson is an anthropologist and documentary filmmaker whose work focuses on the relationship of culture, psychology and personal experience in Indonesia. Lemelson’s area of specialty is Southeast-Asian studies, psychological anthropology and transcultural psychiatry. He is currently an adjunct professor of anthropology at UCLA and a research anthropologist in the Semel Institute of Neuroscience at UCLA.
Alessandra Pasquino
Producer
Alessandra Pasquino has produced broadcast commercials, documentaries and special projects for over 10 years. She has collaborated with many filmmakers and artists including: Oliver Stone, Wayne Wang, Klaus Kinski, Gregory Colbert, Leonardo Di Caprio, Pietro Scalia and Matthew Rolston. She is currently a freelance documentary producer and independent filmmaker.
Chisako Yokoyama
Editor
Chisako Yokoyama has worked as an editor and assistant editor on studio motion pictures, independent features and narrative and documentary films. Her credits as editor include the English and Japanese language independent films “Saki,” “Takamine” and “Goemon” and as first assistant editor, “American Gangster,” “Memoirs of a Geisha,” “Black Hawk Down” and “Good Will Hunting.”
Wing Ko
Director of Photography
Wing Ko has collaborated with a who’s who of modern artists, musicians and filmmakers. He worked with Spike Jonze on several music videos and edited the pilot for MTV’s “Jackass.” Wing helped create more than 80 music videos for Nine Inch Nails, Soundgarden, Public Enemy and other top bands of the time. For more than 15 years he has traveled around the world and crewed skateboard videos.
Malcolm Cross
Music Composer
Cross has been a professional composer for film, television and stage since 1996. He composed the score for “Oh Saigon” a feature-length documentary broadcast on the Sundance Channel. He scored the independent shorts “I Dream of Dog” and “Insomniac,” and wrote the theme and incidental music for the television series “America’s Prom Queen”.
DIRECTOR'S STATEMENT
I have been making documentary films in Indonesia for almost twenty years. After I made a film about the mass killings that occurred there in 1965-66 I began to investigate political brutality, in particular the horrific mass rapes that occurred during the 1998 economic crisis and the fall of the Suharto regime. Realizing that this episode of violence was only one piece of the larger puzzle of gender inequality in Indonesia today, I began to interview a number of women who had suffered domestic violence or abuse. Some of these women were Balinese and a number of them turned out to be part of polygamous families.
I overcame some initial hesitance to start a project about polygamy because, trained as an anthropologist, I was reluctant to portray a kind of marriage that certain audiences might judge negatively. But I soon realized that the emotional stories these wives have to tell held a powerful message about the relationships between men and women and the ways social rules and structures can put women at a disadvantage—or even trap or subjugate them.
I overcame some initial hesitance to start a project about polygamy because, trained as an anthropologist, I was reluctant to portray a kind of marriage that certain audiences might judge negatively. But I soon realized that the emotional stories these wives have to tell held a powerful message about the relationships between men and women and the ways social rules and structures can put women at a disadvantage—or even trap or subjugate them.
For the families I got to know, ongoing male domination and control determine the course of women’s domestic, intimate, and economic lives. Yet in this and other ways, polygamous unions are similar to typical marriages. The struggles of polygamous wives are simply an extension of the overall diminished sense of choice and agency that women still experience in many public and private spheres. Yet this film shows that there are potential solutions and tangible ways to improve the conditions that cause women to suffer.
I was lucky to work with a team of Balinese collaborators who advised me in making this film. We hope that it accurately portrays the complexities of the lives of these families. For Balinese viewers, film screenings with activists have already spurred discussions amongst women about their options and the opportunities for empowerment and positive change in their lives. For others it will offer a window into a world rarely seen, or seen accurately, by outsiders.
I was lucky to work with a team of Balinese collaborators who advised me in making this film. We hope that it accurately portrays the complexities of the lives of these families. For Balinese viewers, film screenings with activists have already spurred discussions amongst women about their options and the opportunities for empowerment and positive change in their lives. For others it will offer a window into a world rarely seen, or seen accurately, by outsiders.
IN THEATERS
PRESS
- "An exposé and call for social reform in Bali, [director Robert] Lemelson offers an eye-opening look behind Bali's profile as a tourist Shangri-la."-Sheri Linden, LA Times. Read the full review
- "An informative look at how outdated traditions play out today" - Joe DeFore, The Hollywood Reporter. Read the full review
- "Forget the Bali you see in pictures, the shocking documentary “Bitter Honey” shows a side of the tropical paradise where polygamy and domestic abuse reigns." -Dorri Olds, TheBlot Magazine. Read the full review
- UCLA Newsroom
- "Fascinating and undoubtedly important, this is a doc you'll want to keep an eye out for." -Indiewire
- "An intimate and provocative film." -Rachel Cooper, Asia Society
THEATRICAL SCREENINGS
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- October 3-9, 2014 - The Regent Theater, Los Angeles, CA
- October 17-23, 2014 - Presidio Theater San Francisco, CA
- October 24-30, 2014 - Apple Cinemas Freshpond, Boston, MA
- October 31-November 6, 2014 - IFC NY Theater, New York, NY
- October 31-November 6, 2014 - AMC River East, Chicago, IL
- November 7-13, 2014 - West End Cinema, Washington, DC
- November 13, 14, 15, 2014 @ 7pm - Gateway Megaplex, Salt Lake City, Utah
- November 30, 2014 @ 4:30pm - Hollywood Theater Portland, OR
GET INVOLVED
ADVOCACY FOR WOMEN IN BALI
We are currently in the early stages of setting up the first gender based violence program in Bali.
If you would like to help women in domestic violence situations and enable positive development, you can donate to the foundations below:
If you would like to help women in domestic violence situations and enable positive development, you can donate to the foundations below:
Bumi Sehat
Bumi Sehat Foundation International is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization registered in the United States of America. Our mission is to provide access to quality healthcare to families; and kind, hygienic and culturally appropriate childbirth to traditionally under-represented populations. Towards these goals, we provide health services, emergency care, education services and environmental programs. We are devoted to working in partnership with people to improve the quality of life and to build peace - one mother, one child, one family at a time.
Bumi Sehat Foundation International is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization registered in the United States of America. Our mission is to provide access to quality healthcare to families; and kind, hygienic and culturally appropriate childbirth to traditionally under-represented populations. Towards these goals, we provide health services, emergency care, education services and environmental programs. We are devoted to working in partnership with people to improve the quality of life and to build peace - one mother, one child, one family at a time.
Asia Foundation
Indonesia was recently ranked in the top 25 percent in the 2012 Open Budget Survey, which measures budget transparency, participation, and oversight in more than 100 countries around the world. Yet corruption, inequity, poverty, and decaying infrastructure are obstacles to Indonesia becoming fully open and thriving. Our programs strengthen the effectiveness of democratic institutions and legal and judicial systems, empower women’s political participation, and support environmental governance. Learn more about the Women's Empowerment Fund
Indonesia was recently ranked in the top 25 percent in the 2012 Open Budget Survey, which measures budget transparency, participation, and oversight in more than 100 countries around the world. Yet corruption, inequity, poverty, and decaying infrastructure are obstacles to Indonesia becoming fully open and thriving. Our programs strengthen the effectiveness of democratic institutions and legal and judicial systems, empower women’s political participation, and support environmental governance. Learn more about the Women's Empowerment Fund
Cherie Blair Foundation
We welcome contributions in all forms to help us provide the resources, skills and support needed for women to reach the next level – and in doing so benefit not just women entrepreneurs, but their children, families and communities at large. Whether through financial support, volunteering or in-kind donations, every contribution counts. Learn more about the Usaha Wanita Mobile Service in Indonesia
We welcome contributions in all forms to help us provide the resources, skills and support needed for women to reach the next level – and in doing so benefit not just women entrepreneurs, but their children, families and communities at large. Whether through financial support, volunteering or in-kind donations, every contribution counts. Learn more about the Usaha Wanita Mobile Service in Indonesia
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Elemental Productions is a documentary film production company based in Los Angeles that is dedicated to making documentary films on social and cultural issues in Southeast Asia and the United States. The company was founded in 2007 by anthropologist Robert Lemelson, and evolved out of years of fieldwork and thousands of hours of footage gathered in 1997.